Let’s Drop Our Stones

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I was on the phone with a friend when I first saw news of Invisible Children Co-Founder, Jason Russell’s arrest. I read the article out loud and was literally sick to my stomach. Not because of what he had done, but because of what it meant.

I am a huge supporter of Invisible Children. Not financially, necessarily, but I tell others about their organization, follow them closely, dedicated my novel, Collision, to them and am giving a portion of the proceeds of copies sold from my website, to them. The non-profit changed my life and I am forever grateful.

I was ecstatic when the #kony2012 campaign burst on to the scene. I was elated by the response and seeing my Twitter and Facebook streams fill with screen caps of the film and photos of Kony. I bought my kit and my family made plans to cover the night on April 20th.

Then, the skeptics started talking, casting doubt and fear onto the waters and turning some people’s excitement into more of a muddy uncertainty. I’ve spent the last two weeks defending Invisible Children to friends, family and fans that are asking my opinion about the negative press the organization has received.

And now, Mr. Russell’s arrest. I fully expected the deluge of “what do you think now?” e-mails and yes, they came. So, this is what I say:

“Put down your stones.”

Did Mr. Russell just commit an indiscretion? Yes. We all do – his just happened to be in public (and if you’re pulling out the “but I’ve never done that” card, go back and read the Bible to see what it says about placing sin on a scale of bad to worse). The indiscretion was not only public in the sense of where it happened, but public in the fact that Invisible Children has the attention of millions around the world and a lot of those people want nothing more than to see the organization fail. I can literally visualize those people salivating over this “failure”.

Part of what makes me sick to my stomach is knowing that Mr. Russell must know that too. I can only imagine what he’s feeling right now. Shame, embarrassment, disappointment in himself, fear of what this means to his wife,children and the organization he loves so much. I’ve beat myself up to the point of being bloody and it wasn’t even over stuff with such possible negative consequences.

Instead of jumping up and down at someone else’s problems, why not actually give him some grace? Realize that we have no place to judge and stop to think about what he has managed to do through his good choices.

Do his actions of a few nights ago erase the slaughter of multitudes of human lives over the last twenty-five years? Does it erase the fact that women all over Northern Uganda, Sudan and the Congo have been raped? Or thousands upon thousands of children have been taken violently from their families and forced to kill in order to live themselves? Does one man’s weakness nullify all of that? If so, then God help us.

Even the most loved Bible heroes were complete and utter failures in at least one area of their life, yet they are still held up as examples of how to live. Why? Because we’re all moral failures, ours just look different and we tend to hide that reality from others.

I urge people to keep the focus where it belongs… On Kony. He is the criminal we are after. He is the abductor, the killer, the rapist, the mutilator. He is the enemy. And when he’s caught and brought to justice, then guess what? We’re going to be called to forgive even him.

Drop your stones of judgement and pray for Jason Russell, his wife, his children and his organization. Pray that the ultimate enemy, Satan, will not win in this. Don’t let him take our focus off of doing good because we’re so busy reveling in someone else’s “failure”. And don’t let the enemy convince you to use this as an excuse to do nothing.

If you’re waiting for the perfect person to lead us into battle, you missed him. He came two-thousand years ago and he’s begging you to rise up and be his hands and feet.

Let’s drop our stones, give grace and ACT.

6 thoughts on “Let’s Drop Our Stones

  1. Thank you so much for writing this! I have been thinking all day of how to write something to post on facebook. I could not have said it better my friend!


  2. Stefne, I think I’ve been a little preoccupied this week with turning 40 and basketball–I wasn’t even aware this had happened. I feel so sad for him. It makes me sick how the “media”, especially ones like TMZ, seem to get such glee out of others suffering and how they seem to overlook words like “allegedly”. I’m sure some of the reports are exaggerated. Thank you for your blog!! You put it so eloquently. No matter the truth of what happened in this incident, it in no way diminishes the truth of the horrors of Joseph Kony!!


  3. It is sad, and I feel that Jason Russel perhaps snapped because he is not what he tries to appear to be, and with the entire world focused on HIM right now, maybe the lies that he is living are just too much to bear. My heart goes out to him, but I would respectfully direct your attention to the opinions of the multitudes of bloggers out there who have shown Invisible Children to not necessarily be exactly what they claim to be — I admire them for wanting to help, but they have gone about it in an entirely self-centered way, and based on things JR has said publicly in the past, I suspect that a HUGE motivation for them is to convert people to Christianity by “rallying them behind a good cause”. This is not what needs to happen to “stop Kony”, and the people of Uganda are none too thrilled with the white savior mentality that oozes from this organization. I was always in support of IC, but all I can see now is this ego-centric, ironically homophobic choreographer with a serious savior complex, who isn’t concerned with what the best plan for stopping Kony really is, otherwise he would have gone about this totally differently….
    I’m not throwing stones, not by a long stretch, but I am taking an honest look at an organization and a man who claims to be one thing, but appears more and more to be hiding a lot. They accept funding from anti-gay organizations, including the one that was responsible for pushing the “kill the gays” bill in Uganda — how is that good for the people of Uganda?
    I have to admit that I was wrong about this group — it may be admirable to many Christians that a main (unspoken) mission of their group is to convert their flock to Christianity, but I don’t think Jesus was quite so sneaky… ;-)

    and you know what really bugs me about all of this? because of the very slick and ego-driven nature of the IC campaign, Kony is now considered a joke “cause” by many. Not that westerners can solve this problem anyway, but even before JR’s breakdown, it was already cliche to care about the Kony situation, just because he made such a theatrical production of a very serious, very complicated situation.



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